-----π100 MARRIAGE SECRETS π-----
πSecret 1β£
Everyone you marry has a weakness. Only Allah does not have a weakness. So if you focus on your spouse's weakness you can't get the best out of his/her strength.
πSecret 2β£
Everyone has a dark history. No one is an angel. When you get married or you want to get married stop digging into someone's past. What matters most is the present life of your partner. Old things have passed away. Forgive and forget. Focus on the present and the future.
πSecret 3β£
Every marriage has its own challenges. Marriage is not a bed of roses. Every good marriage has gone through its own test of blazing fire. True love proves in times of challenges. Fight for your marriage. Make up your mind to stay with your spouse in times of need. Remember the vow For better for worse. In sickness and in health be there.
πSecret 4β£
Every marriage has different levels of success. Don't compare your marriage with any one else. We can never be equal. Some will be far, some behind. To avoid marriage stresses, be patient, work hard and with time your marriage dreams shall come true.
πSecret 5β£
To get married is declaring war. When you get married you must declare war against enemies of marriage.
Some πenemies of marriage are:
β οΈIgnorance
β οΈPrayerlessness
β οΈUnforgiveness
β οΈThird party influence
β οΈStinginess
β οΈStubbornness
β οΈLack of love
β οΈRudeness
β οΈLaziness
β οΈDisrespect
β οΈCheating
Be ready to fight to maintain your marriage zone.
πSecret 6β£
There is no perfect marriage. There is no ready made marriage. Marriage is hard work. Volunteer yourself to work daily on it. Marriage is like a car that needs proper maintenance and proper service. If this is not done it will break down somewhere exposing the owner to danger or some unhealthy circumstances. Let us not be careless about our marriages.
πSecret 7β£
Allah doesn't give you a complete person you desire. He gives you the person in the form of raw materials in order for you to mould the person that you desire. This can only be achieved through prayer, love and Patience
πSecret 8β£
Getting married is taking a huge risk. You can not predict what will happen in the future. Situations may change so leave room for adjustments. A husband can lose his good job or a wife may fail to have babies. All these require you to be prayerful otherwise you might divorce.
πSecret 9β£
Marriage is a contract. It is meant to be life long. It needs total commitment. Love is the glue that sticks the couple together. Divorce start in the mind and the devil feeds the mind. Never ever entertain thoughts of getting a divorce. Never threaten your spouse with divorce. Choose to remain married. Allah dislikes divorce.
πSecret 10β£
Every marriage has a price to pay. Marriage is like a bank account. It is the money that you deposit that you withdraw. If you don't deposit love, peace and care into your marriage, you are not a candidate for a blissful home.
πSecret 11-100β£β£β£
Put ALLAH azza wa jal as the center of all ibadah,love and all that were mentioned in Secrets 1-10.
πSo today let us pray for our marriages and ask Allah to help us where we are lacking in the marriage. Send to those you care about because you never know who you may be helping. May Allah bless us all.ameen
Assalamualaikum. My Dear, Never lose hope in your precious Duas. Allah βο·» will grant whatβs best for you at the perfect time, βΨ§Ω Ψ΄Ψ§Ψ‘ Ψ§ΩΩΩ οΏ½
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